Dear Baby,

Today we got all checked in with Dr. Branaman. We got to see you and hear your heartbeat today… that sound takes my breath away!

Love you,
Mama

Dear Hayden,

Just wanted to post a quick update with some new picture of fun and funny things that have been happening!

Love you,
Mama

If you have not napped and you swing in the afternoon, you fall asleep in it:

You are getting very good at making Hs. Sometimes you paint with watercolors in the bathtub:

If I leave my duffle bag out to pack for a trip, you like to climb inside it:

Sometimes you say, “I’m going to relax.” Then, you put your feet up and put your hands behind your head. This even happens at PetSmart when you and Dad are getting litter:

Dear Baby,

Today we got to see you and your precious little heartbeat! We are so excited about you!

Love you,
Mama

Dear Hayden,

We had a very nice Easter this year! We went to church, you hunted for eggs and found stuff the Easter bunny left you, and then we went to lunch with Nana, Papa, Grandma and Jiddoh. After lunch we came home and colored Easter eggs, which you loved!! Grandma and Jiddoh spent a lot of time with you on Saturday because Dad and I had to take a class. You got a new bike with training wheels and Jiddoh taught you how to ride it! Overall, it was a great Easter weekend!!

Love you,
Mama

A tantrum before church

Easter basket

Hunting for eggs

Checking out the eggs

Your first Peep

New bike

Coloring eggs

Coloring eggs

Eggs

Dear Baby,

Today we learned that you are on the way! This is such exciting news to us because we have been hoping and praying for you for well over a year now. Your little life is proof that prayers do get answered and that everything comes in its own time. We love you already and can’t wait to include you in this fun family! Your sister is going to be so excited to meet you!

Love you,
Mama

Dear Hayden,

Today you went to a tea party for Lily’s birthday. I couldn’t take you because I had another obligation, so Dad took you. After the party, Angie sent me this sweet picture of you and Hannah Jane snuggled up with Dad to watch Lily open her presents! Dad is wearing your tea hat! Too funny!

Love you,
Mama

Dear Hayden,

There are few things I llke more than listening to or reading other mothers’ thoughts on motherhood. It’s amazing how universal this experience is, all the while being so individual, because I am the only one in the world who gets to mother you. Tonight I went to a lecture with one of my favorite authors, and she shared an exerpt from one of her books — it resonated with me so profoundly that I had to share it with you here:

I am your mother, the first mile of your road. Me and all my obvious and hidden limitations. That means that in addition to possibly wrecking you, I have the chance to give you what was given to me: a decent childhood, more good memories than bad, some values, a sense of tribe, a run at happiness. You can’t imagine how seriously I take that… mothering you is the first thing of consequence I have ever done.

I love you,
Mama

Dear Hayden,

Yesterday you took your frist trip to the ER. We were eating lunch at Costco with Elizabeth and the boys and you got up to walk with me to the trash can. You tripped on your own feet and took the corner of a bench to the corner of your eye. It didn’t require stitches, but they did butterfly bandage it. I took a fall very similar to this when I was 3. You were cracking everyone up at the ER — but you did not like being held down for the cleaning and bandaging at all!! They told us it’s going to heal nicely and you will be just fine!

Love you,
Mama

You (2010):

Mom (1982):

Dear Hayden,

This morning I made you a dress out of one of your dad’s old work shirts. I found myself surprisingly sentimental while I was sewing because my favorite moment each day is when your dad gets home from work — you run right into his arms and bury your face in his work shirt. We are so lucky to have each other.

Love you,
Mama

Dear Hayden,

As an Arizona kid, you don’t get too many opportunities to jump in rain puddles. We got quite a bit of rain today, so you did exactly that!

Love you,
Mama